It's Not Always Greener On The Other Side!

Written by Linda Mains

What exactly does the word "RESPECT" mean in 2011 anyway? Someone I just met told me that her mother was murdered by her father and that she wanted to empower women, but how do you empower a group that can't empower themselves? Empowerment is another obsolete word that might not mean now in 2011, what it used to mean in years gone by. Women really are a diverse group of individuals, at least I believe we are. So what exactly would it take to give all women in the U.S., real empowerment and respect in 2011? I can sure tell you one thing, for that to happen a lot of the 20 something up-and-coming women, really need to take a strong dose of a pill called; "wise the fuck up!"

I believe there's one reason for many of the stupid choices that a lot of America's 20 something year old women are making. Can you guess what that might be? If you guessed men...then you'd be right. Yes! I said the reason was because of men...you heard me right. We borrowed one rib from men, and men have been making women, pay for that borrowed rib ever since. Maybe self respect could happen for women in the U.S, in their teens, if they didn't take advise from their emotionally damaged mother's. We've all been at that Hotel...you know the one? It's called the Heartbreak Hotel! So my friend and I where talking about how stupid some 20 something women in the U.S are these days. Or...maybe a better term would be "stupid, combined with, desperate."

Now don't get me wrong; I understand when your in love and have been that way with a guy for a long time, but here's the really important part: "the man your with has to feel the same way that you do! Which means that he has to be in love with you too!" Now I understand the dynamics of that type of relationship, I've been in many of those myself. What I don't understand and can't understand, are those stupid and desperate 20 something year old, girls and not women out there...whom may have only dated that particular guy that they have set their sights on for only a month or two. Then after the two break-up...either A. the chick stalks the dudes current girlfriend (like fatal attraction), or B. she'll harass the dude either threw, text-messages, e-mails, talking shit about him to his friends, which is usually about what an asshole he is for doing her so wrong. Even though they only dated for one or two months...does that make any sense to you? That type of behavior makes absolutely no-sense to me! These types of chicks will show up at this dudes local hang outs, and basically make that poor guys life a living hell! At-least that's the game plan, with these types of mentally-deranged-women. These types of pathetic chicks, never-ever do this by themselves, they usually have their pathetic friends tagging along with them.

So I asked my new friend...why can't these sorry excuses for women just say; "fuck this asshole! Fuck what he thinks!" Why can't they do that? Or why can't they think; "I'm not going to obsess or think about his fucked up ass anymore?" I did it for a month to a couple of different guys, that I was madly in love with...so why can't they? Guess what happens when you don't bug a guy...he might actually do something called; "call you!" Amazing how that works, and it works so well. Now that's only if this chick had meant anything to this guy she's been harassing. But I guess it's just their pre-madona way of existing that's totally fucking up their life's. This is the pre-madona way of existing; "I'm so fucking great! I make so much money! I drive a hummer! I'm so fucking hot! My body is so bomb-tastic! I'm so fucking cool! There is no way he can't love me! Or, he must love me!" Now if you ask me...that's exactly how these type of moronic chicks think, whom are mostly "head trips/cases," think. So if this poor guy or unknowing victims don't reciprocate the love, that these moronic chicks are making towards these guys, these dumb-bitches will flip out! Turning into the chick from Fatal Attraction. She'll hunt down the poor guys wife or girlfriend...and she might become the next future Joey Scandal.

God I hope everybody has seen Fatal Attraction? To me that movie is more like a documentary, to how the 20 something, up and coming women are acting in America these days. Yea, that shit actually happens, and has happened to a couple of friends of mine. Many of the crowd of 20 something year old women these days have absolutely no self esteem. As if there where no tall and better looking guys then the guy that they where just with? Right? Now my new friend told me that was the exact reason why she hung out with older women. As she put it;"most of the younger chicks act like bubble headed idiots!" She went on to tell me that, she wanted to further her business mind, by hanging out with intelligent women, most of whom are older, unfortunately. That's not talking about all older women, as those young dumb chicks do get old...so there you go. All of which is not saying much for American woman or how we think about ourselves. Does everything have to be about a man, and what man you have? Really? Now that's just sad! Do you think men put this much time into women? I don't think so, in fact, I know that they don't! Plus my new friend said that she didn't want young friends whom are women, to talk like this around her; "WOW! On Facebook, he's dating her? He's such a brown nose-er, you can see the shit-stain on the top of his nose! And can you believe his retarded comments, to the other chicks on Facebook? Everyone knows he kisses all the girls asses!"

I kid you not, I heard a 20 something year old girl not woman making those comments as loudly as possible, so everybody in the nearby vicinity had to listen to her stupid ass. I really wanted to say, but since someone needed to be mature. I didn't say it, but this is what I would have said; "Oh my God! You are an unbelievably dumb bitch! Why are you so fucking immature and stupid? Are you trying to impress me with how many UN-inteligent things you can come up with in 5 minutes or less?" Then I thought to myself: "there are really some slim-pickings out there for all those 18-20 something year old guys. With all those almost obese, like the two 20 something year old girls, and not women, who ate cheap Subway Salad's on the fly, smothered in their foul-smelling-Italian dressing; in a very lame attempt, to act like they are trying to slim down, (which they're not, adding as much dressing, while only getting fatter), while sitting at the Jacuzzi. I usually take a Jacuzzi after working out and coming home from work, to relieve the pain that I have from working out, but because of the rude and stupid 20 something immature bitches that where there that night. But also because of that foul smelling Italian dressing, I went back inside my apartment.

Do you guys want to know whom I feel really sorry for? With the way that these 20 something chicks act over most men, I feel sorry for my 19 year-old-son. I have to say, that he is really limited on any great pickings out there in the real world. Maybe that's why he keeps getting back together with a woman that is 4 years older then him. He knows that the grass isn't always greener on the other side, and younger chicks right now are desperate, overweight, and stupid, which to any man are a fatal combination of bad characteristics. Like one of my favorite comedians say's, you can fix ugly, you can fix saggy tit's, but the one thing you can't fix is "STUPID!" Stupid is life long, and usually there is no cure, for the women whom are inflicted with this type of malfunction.

So what is empowerment and respect for women in 2011? Well I can tell you what it's not...it's not women whom attempt to destroy, the men or maybe women that they had very short term relationships with. But it's also not having a stalking mentality either! Real respect and empowerment, is having the strength and intelligence to know when to accept others choices...no matter what those choices may be. Even when those choices mean that that person has chosen to love someone other then you, no matter what you think about that person. So real empowerment is the feeling you'll get from being able to walk away from anyone who's rejected you. Just remember; that you will find someone better, and learning how to let go, is the most respectful, and empowering thing...that you could ever learn to do! So to all those 20 something year old chick's...stop acting like twit's, and get over the bum and move on!