Gossiping And the Internet Stalking Troll

Relationships are hard everywhere these days. Does anyone remember the song people are people, I believe it was a song by Depeche mode. Some of the songs lyrics say "people are people so why should it be, that you and I get along so awfully, and "you hate me, and I've never even met you, so what could I have done?" Now I'm not the type of person to just fly off the handle, and give people a bunch of crap for no reason. There are a lot of people in the cyber world, who want to make other peoples life's, absolutely miserable for no reason. Those are the people that love giving other people all of the crap and hate for absolutely no reason.

This type of behavior sucks for anyone whom has had to live threw it. Trust me when I say this, everybody hates it. It's like one day for whatever reason, jealousy, stupidity, rude behavior are cool. Hell I'm not even sure why some of these people even exist? The only purpose that these internet monsters exist at all, is to make other peoples life's living hell. Now when I was formally known as someone else. I personally went threw something just like this, for over 2 years. I have also found out threw friends, that my real name has been posted on a special site, that is dedicated to destroying peoples lives, threw outing all of there "personal information" for the world to see. I believe that this will and has been destroying other peoples well beings and life's for more then a couple of years now. What I'm referring too is the internet troll, stalker, or hacker (but not all hackers), whom have nothing better to do, then destroy people that they have never met or no longer are friends with.

Is this type of unwarranted behavior against strangers really necessary? Does the world really need more people like this? The people whom are involved in this type of behavior, of posting viscous lies about other people all over the internet, along with other peoples personal information. Are responsible for some people losing their jobs, apartments, and life's, and some of  these victims have committed suicide too, simply because something that they may not have been ready to share with the world, was made public by a site or an internet troll, stalker, or certain vicious hackers. I really don't believe that the internet was ever created to give weak and evil people, a voice to destroy their innocent victims life's. Here's the real kicker in this story a lot of people in America and around the world, really enjoy these mindless actions. I keep hearing more and more about this, threw people that are close to me, and threw some of my Facebook friends.

I wanted to become a Buddhist because they taught a way of being, that I really wanted to achieve. So I read the whole book about what Buddhism is. Here's a piece from that book on why Gossiping about other people suck's. The Buddhists refer to it as murder, without the actual act of murder. What is a human life? Or better then that question, is, "what does a human life consist of?" Well it consists of a job (if you are lucky to have one these days), if you're lucky... lots of family, friends, and a boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband. It will also consist of what your friends and family do or don't know about you. You will also in your life, be able to choose, what you do and don't want the people in you life, like your neighbors or friends to know about you. Many people around the world, are judged, by what other people do or don't know about them. So lets say theoretically that you had made porn, and had been a prostitute in your former life. Then you had gone and started a new life one day. Now nobody had known about your porn past, and it really wasn't anybody's business. I'm referring to a story that I heard about, no names are mentioned here, because I respect this women. Anyway then one day, someone calls you up, to tell you that all your previous information about your life is now public property. The next day after the call, your neighbors are laughing and calling you names. Now that's why the Buddhists believe that Gossiping is a form of murder, because, it destroys the life of that person whom was gossiped about. Does anyone believe that once everyone finds out about everything there is to know about you. Especially about things that where nobody's business in the first place. Does anyone believe that their life's will ever be the same after that? Everything will change for the worst once that happens.

Here's the thing, I know that people love gossip, drama, and B.S these days. All of which is really stressful if you have to live that way every day. I have been dealing with an internet troll, who's also a hacker. Who's hacked a site that I chat on, and just says' the most viscous lies and insults about me. Not just once, but lines and lines, of insult after insult. I really think its lame, I don't get mad anymore, because everyone who knows about it, also thinks it's as lame as I do. But this person has wished death on me, and told people in and on a public forum, that I have a social disease, that I don't have. It's totally retarded! But I have to talk about this, because someone has too. Look people, we're not in f-ing High School anymore! If you can't be a bully face to face, you shouldn't be a keyboard warrior either! It's a really weak thing to do to someone whom doesn't; A. either know you anymore, or B. has never met you. Maybe you where picked on or abused as a child? Who knows why these weak individuals act this way? I for one sure don't. But I will tell you what it does to the victims whom are unlucky enough to have to deal with this type of abuse on the daily. It stresses you out and makes you physically ill.

I for one know that, I don't need that type of abuse in my life, and I know that you don't either. As I write this, my only hope for the future of the internet is...I hope that this cyber violence will stop! It really is destroying lives by outing information that is none of anyone else's business, except for the person who's life it will be destroying. More then that I really hope that cyber bullies, will all learn to leave other people alone. To the bullies, it really isn't doing what you need it to do. Are they destroying my life. No not really, I have a wonderful life and a faithful boyfriend whom I love. It's sad that powerless people, whom obviously have no self-esteems, have to go around making the cyber world a very ugly and dangerous place to dwell. But fear not, to all of my 1500 or 1700 Facebook members, I will overcome. How? Because one day, I will be free at last, I will be free at last! To live the rest of my life, minus being harassed or stalked, by the animal referred to as the internet stalking troll.